How To Lessen Interview Anxiety

How To Lessen Interview Anxiety

 
 

How To Lessen Interview Anxiety

 
 

Most of us get nervous before and during job interviews but what causes these feelings of nervousness (anxiety) to arise?

 

The answer is: Our mindsets — the specific thoughts running through our heads before interviews and during interviews, even after interviews.
 

Some of the most common thoughts that cause great anxiety include: “I hope they like me, I hope I’m good enough, who am I to be applying for this — there are way more qualified people, and I need to know all the answers.
 

When we think of these thoughts we feel pressure to perform, and this creates a sensation in our bodies.
 

When we feel pressure to perform we feel nervous OR tense OR some feeling that shows up in our bodies in a way that makes us sweat, our heart to beat fast, and our hands to shake. (I know because I’ve been there.)
 

We’re not typically consciously aware of these thoughts — which are just sentences in our head.
 

We don’t realize that we’re causing our feelings with the language we choose to run through our brains.
 

Language is what causes our feelings.
 
 
How To Lessen Interview Anxiety
 
 

The first step of reducing anxiety is to notice what thoughts we’re having, what we’re telling ourselves about our upcoming interviews.

 

Often, my clients get more and more nervous (had an anxiety attack) because they didn’t get chosen for a previous opportunity; they let that affect their confidence in future interviews, before which their thoughts tend to go towards the worst possible scenario.
 

For example, they think things like, “I have the skills but I’m just no good at interviewing and so I doubt I‘ll have a chance OR I’m probably not going to get this job because I haven’t gotten the last five I interviewed for.”
 

These are just thoughts.
 

They’re most certainly not the truth.
 

However, most people think that they are facts when in actuality people are just creating these thoughts with the mindsets they currently have — mindsets that are running on default mode.
 

Once you notice the thoughts you’re creating, then you can see how they’re affecting your results.
 

It looks like this: a thought causes a feeling, which causes an action (OR lack of action), which causes a result.
 
 
How To Lessen Interview Anxiety
 
 

For example:

 

Thought: I have the skills but I’m just no good at interviewing and so I doubt I’ll have a chance.
 

Feeling: Doubt.
 

Action: Show up to interview in an unconfident state of mind, not as your best self.
 

Result: Keep getting rejected for jobs.
 

Many people will unconsciously go through this over and over in their minds and keep getting the same result, getting more and more frustrated each time.
 
 
How To Lessen Interview Anxiety
 
 

Instead, where you want to go with your mind is somewhere more useful, like this:

 

Thought: I wonder what they’ll need my help with and how I can serve in this role.
 

Feeling: Curious.
 

Action: Show up and ask great questions from a place of service and curiosity.
 

Result: Increased chance of getting the job. Feeling good about the interview.
 

If at the end of the day, you’re doing your best to shift your mindset around the interview but you still catch yourself getting that nervous sensation, it’s okay — I’ve been there and I totally get it.
 

However, it doesn’t have to cost you the job.
 
 
How To Lessen Interview Anxiety
 
 

When I find myself in this situation and am able to address it head-on, I have a laugh and continue with the interview.

 

For example, during one interview, my hands and face were shaking, and I knew that it was noticeable — it felt very awkward.
 

So I said to the interviewing panel: “If I appear a bit nervous, it’s probably because I am.”
 

After that, we all had a laugh, I was still able to bring my A-game with my answers, and I got the offer.
 

The bottom line is we’re all human (including your interviewers).
 

We all make mistakes, we all get nervous sometimes and we all have uncomfortable feelings at times.
 

It doesn’t make us any less valuable OR any less capable of reaching any goal we’re striving for.
 
 
How To Lessen Interview Anxiety
 
 

If you’re interested in learning more from me…

 

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  • We’re going to go over the opportunities and how to get infinite opportunities, so you’ll never have to worry OR have anxiety attack about where you are getting your next opportunity from.
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  • You going to find out how to crush your interviews and how to focus on what you can control to nail those interviews.
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  • Also, how to get a win no matter what, how to feel likeable, so whether they like you OR they don’t, how you’re still going to feel intact, and how you’re still going to feel confident in yourself to keep going to ultimately get to your goal.
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  • We’re going to talk about mastering salary negotiations so that you can make the money that you want to make over the course of your lifetime. We’re talking five, ten years out, what is it that you want to be doing.
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  • You’re probably thinking pretty small right now if you’re like most people. I want to challenge you to think bigger.
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  • And the last thing we’re going to talk about setting up your promotion, so, the things you need to be focused on right now in order to get where you actually want to go.
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And remember, the current system isn’t perfect, but you can outsmart it. I’m here to prove to you that you do have what it takes.

 

I’ll see you next time and I can’t wait!

 

In Work & Life

 

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– XO Natalie

 
 

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